Many people have never gone to court, other than for a traffic ticket. Preparing for a court appearance can be nerve-wracking, but if you keep some tips in mind, you will be fine.
- Dress appropriately. Business dress is preferred. A low-key, conservative look is your best bet. This is not the time to show off your style or display expensive jewelry. You want to look boring, respectable, and trustworthy.
- Leave weapons at home. Guns, knives, and anything else you couldn’t bring through TSA to get on airplane should be left at home. You will go through a metal detector and may have your belongings searched.
- Don’t bring a posse. If you absolutely need someone for support, bring one person. He or she may not be allowed in the courtroom, but can sit with you in the waiting room.
- No kids. Never bring your child unless you are instructed to do so.
- Speak when spoken to. Let your attorney do the talking unless you are asked a question. You’re not running the show. Trust your attorney to get the job done. If you have to tell your attorney something, whisper or write a note.
- Don’t interact. This is not the place for you and your ex to correct each other or make pointed comments. You are not going head-to-head.
- Be respectful. You can refer to the judge as ‘your honor’ and other court personnel as ‘sir’ or ‘ma’am.’ Be calm and polite whenever you speak.
- Don’t bring snacks. No food or beverages are allowed in the courtroom, so don’t show up with your Starbucks in hand. Do not chew gum or have candy in your mouth in court. Chewing tobacco is also a no-no.
- Cellular silence is golden. Turn off your cell phone and do not use it or look at it when in the courtroom.
- Ask what to expect. Find out from your attorney what will be happening that day. If you will be testifying, ask for some pointers and tips.
DeTorres & DeGeorge is ready to represent you in your family court case.